Thoughts for the Week 18 May

It was very good to see so many of you last Shabbat at synagogue services and last Sunday at the Well End Scout Activity Centre.

LAG LA’OMER THANKS
Many thanks to the indefatigable Rivka Azair and her many assistants for a splendid Lag LaOmer celebration. To the Food Team and the Fire Team and all those who helped in any way, our sincere appreciation. Some of the many photos can be seen via our Rambam Sephardi website.

Our thanks as well to Rafi Lavi, Asher Moses and Gary Somers for conducting last week’s Shabbat services. We thank Michelle & Jonathan Bahar for sponsoring Kiddush in memory of Jonathan’s late father Emmanuel Bahar.

YAVNEH COLLEGE PRIMARY SCHOOL
A planning application for Yavneh Primary has been submitted recently. It goes without saying how important it is to have a new primary school in our area. Please support the application (17/0767/FUL) by clicking here.

ANNETTE HENLEY – RISING STAR AWARD
Our member Annette Henley (Wahnon) has been shortlisted for a Rising Stars Award 2017, an annual award scheme for women sponsored by Times Newspapers and other prestigious organisations. The aim of the awards is to promote gender equality by recognising talented women in a range of fields.

Annette was nominated for her work on mental health and wellbeing at the Home Office. The award process includes an element of public voting. We heartily endorse Annette for this well-deserved award. Unless you know any of the other candidates, please go to the website and vote for Annette in the Public Sector vote category.

RECITING PSALMS Introduction: This brief comment is in memory of my late mother (Brainah Leah bat Moshe Aharon) and for all those who read Tehillim for the sake of others. [Note: Quoted verses are taken from the Mechon Mamre website.]

Chapter 42: Psalm 42 opens the new section of the Book of Psalms and is attributed to the Sons of Korah. It is one of 13 chapters dedicated to the Maskil (Chief Musician). The central theme is the deep pain of Exile and a yearning to be brought back into the Divine Presence. It ends with the hope of happier times, recalling memories of when G-d was close by.

Human aspirations aren’t truly satisfied unless we’re in direct relationship with our Creator. Nothing is worse than being distant and disconnected from the Almighty. Sin cuts us off from our true selves, and causes our soul to cry-out for better.

כְּאַיָּל, תַּעֲרֹג עַל-אֲפִיקֵי-מָיִם– כֵּן נַפְשִׁי תַעֲרֹג אֵלֶיךָ אֱ-לֹהִים. As the hart yearns after the water brook, so yearns my soul after You, O God. (Psalms 42:2)

מַה-תִּשְׁתּוֹחֲחִי, נַפְשִׁי– וַתֶּהֱמִי עָלָי: הוֹחִלִי לֵא-לֹהִים, כִּי-עוֹד אוֹדֶנּוּ– יְשׁוּעוֹת פָּנָיו. Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why moan within me? Hope in God; for I shall yet praise the salvation of [G-d’s] countenance. (Psalms 42:6)

Despite the psalmist’s overwhelming sorrow, hope is found in remembering G-d’s mercies. One’s worst fears can be overcome by realising the Almighty finds no joy in punishing the wicked but rather in their return to righteousness. Psalm 42 is useful in quelling one’s fears and doubts and instead focusing us on faithfulness.

יוֹמָם, יְצַוֶּה ה חַסְדּוֹ, וּבַלַּיְלָה, שִׁירֹה עִמִּי–תְּפִלָּה, לְאֵל חַיָּי. By day the LORD commands loving kindness, and at night, song shall be with me; a prayer unto the God of my life. (Psalms 42:9)

בְּרֶצַח, בְּעַצְמוֹתַי– חֵרְפוּנִי צוֹרְרָי; בְּאָמְרָם אֵלַי כָּל-הַיּוֹם, אַיֵּה אֱ-לֹהֶיךָ. As with a crushing in my bones, my adversaries taunt me; saying unto me all day: ‘Where is your God?’ (Psalms 42:11)

Others interpret this psalm as a longingly heartfelt call to G-d, while remembering past joys of visiting the Temple during the three Pilgrimage Festivals. The sound of running waters serves a two-fold purpose, one to remind ourselves how – like a nearby brook – the Almighty is close though still beyond our reach, the other to recall the tumultuous torrents that washed us away from our homeland.

This Psalm concludes on an up-note (verse 12 is a near exact repetition of verse 6) – that the Almighty’s plans are for our benefit and that we must always ‘hope in G-d’ for our salvation. In the Spanish & Portuguese Jews’ liturgical tradition, this chapter is evocatively chanted during evening services on the 2nd night of Sukkot.

Thoughts for the Week 11 May

Thankfully, North Korea seems to have taken a step back from its aggressive, belligerent rhetoric over the past 7 days. And to the relief of many, the election result in France didn’t result in any surprises.

Late last week Buckingham Palace announced the retirement of Prince Phillip Duke of Edinburgh at the age of 95 – having served in his duties for nearly 70 years. Asked what he would do in his spare time, Prince Philip replied with the type of witty remark he is well-known for.

Of course, the royal family lives a level of privilege that might appeal to most of us. But who’s prepared to work for 30 years beyond statutory retirement! We wish H.E. the Duke of Edinburgh a well-earned rest.

RECITING PSALMS Introduction: This brief comment is in memory of my late mother (Brainah Leah bat Moshe Aharon) and for all those who read Tehillim for the sake of others. [Note: Quoted verses are taken from the Mechon Mamre website.]

Chapter 41: Psalm 41 is attributed to King David during a period of severe illness. While lamenting the maliciousness of his enemies, David declares his faith in G-d’s closeness even at the worst moments in his life. This Psalm completes the first major section of the Book of Psalms, ending with praises for the Almighty and the words Amen veAmen.

In the introductory verses David describes the merits accruing to those who help the poor. Even in their distress they won’t be abandoned by the Almighty.

ה–יִסְעָדֶנּוּ, עַל-עֶרֶשׂ דְּוָי; כָּל-מִשְׁכָּבוֹ, הָפַכְתָּ בְחָלְיוֹ. LORD, support him upon the couch of illness; You turn all his lying down into sickness. (Psalms 41:4)

Then he moves from 3rd person to 1st person to echo a sense of bitter frustration in which even those who were trusted seem to have betrayed him.

אוֹיְבַי–יֹאמְרוּ רַע לִי;    מָתַי יָמוּת, וְאָבַד שְׁמוֹ. My enemies speak evil of me: ‘When shall he die, and his name perish?’ (Psalms 41:6)

גַּם-אִישׁ שְׁלוֹמִי, אֲשֶׁר-בָּטַחְתִּי בוֹ– אוֹכֵל לַחְמִי; הִגְדִּיל עָלַי עָקֵב. Yea, my own familiar friend whom I trusted, ate my bread and lifted his heel against me. (Psalms 41:10)

Convinced of his righteousness, though, David is willing to rely on G-d’s protection in thwarting the threats of his enemies.

בְּזֹאת יָדַעְתִּי, כִּי-חָפַצְתָּ בִּי: כִּי לֹא-יָרִיעַ אֹיְבִי עָלָי. By this I know You delight in me, that my enemy doesn’t triumph over me. (Psalms 41:12)

בָּרוּךְ ה, אֱ-לֹהֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל–מֵהָעוֹלָם, וְעַד הָעוֹלָם:  אָמֵן וְאָמֵן. Blessed be the LORD, God of Israel, from everlasting to everlasting. Amen, and Amen. (Psalms 41:14)

We live in a busy and distracting world. Often, not until we experience illness does one take opportunity to draw closer to G-d. This Psalm reminds those who suffer that their efforts are not wasted, and that prayer can bring deeper spiritual understanding at such times.

Parshat Emor

Summary: Emor is the 8th parasha in the Book of Leviticus comprising Chapters 21:1 – 24:23, the middle part which is also read on each of the 3 festivals – Pesah, Shavuoth and Sukkot.

Emor begins with a description of laws relating to Kohanim; whom they can marry and for whom they must mourn. It includes an explanation of physical defects in a Kohen which  proscribe their service in the Mishkan, the prohibition of serving while spiritually impure (Ta’mei) or even partaking of any sanctified gifts that belong to the Kohanim when Ta’mei.

Emor then lists laws pertaining to offerings brought to the Mishkan, the need for them to be unblemished, of a certain age and to be consumed within a limited time.

Shabbat and the 5 major festivals (Pesah, Shavuoth, Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur & Sukkot) are spelled out. Then the Torah describes the daily Menorah lighting and weekly Showbread Table (Shulhan) perpetual services conducted in the Mishkan.

Emor concludes with the incident of the blasphemer who was incarcerated; and after G-d’s warning of the punishments for various harmful acts, was stoned to death.

Please look here for an Aliyah-by-Aliyah summary.

Comment: At a superficial level the chronology of the parasha seems difficult to reconcile. After explaining laws related to Kohanim serving in the Mishkan, the Torah describe the Jewish festivals (Mikra’ei Kodesh) before returning to the perpetual service of the Menorah & Shulhan.

It would appear that the Festivals, which apply to all members of the Jewish people, are a digression from the type of work that only pertains to Kohanim.

One alternative in looking at Emor is to understand it within the wider context of the Book of Vayikra. The last 4 parashot (Tazria, Metsorah, Aharei Mot & Kedoshim) concentrated on spiritual purity and being sanctified (Kadosh) via our relationships. They applied to Kohen and non-Kohen alike.

Emor begins to show the distinction between Kohanim and the people. Whereas Bnei Yisrael had an option to come before G-d in the Mishkan on specific occasions, the Kohanim had a perpetual obligation to keep themselves in a state of readiness to serve.

The festival laws remind us that despite the mundane activities characterising our lives, through the use of calendrical time we are given special opportunities to be in G-d’s presence. While the Menorah & Shulhan service in the Mishkan, help us to recognise that G-d’s presence is never absent in the world. It simply depends upon us to tune in on a daily basis.

 

Post-Script: The Book of Leviticus spans the 4-6 weeks in which Bnei Yisrael were encamped at the base of Mt Sinai learning from Moshe that which G-d commanded him atop the mountain. It was a time for inaugurating the Mishkan and inducting the Kohanim before the nation began its journey toward Canaan.

The third of the 5 Books of Moses, Leviticus, is also known as Torat Kohanim (Law of the Priests) because it contains a detailed explanation of the daily, weekly and annual Mishkan ritual cycle. It also contains well-known codes for Jewish behaviour still relevant today – Kashrut, Family Relationships, Shabbat and Festivals. Many of these mitsvot enabled Bnei Yisrael to remain in a state of ritual purity and become a Sanctified Nation. Ultimately, beyond the laws governing submission to the Divine, there were social justice laws intended for interacting with a wider world.

Parashot Aharei Mot – Kedoshim

Parashot Aharei Mot-Kedoshim are the 6th & 7th in the Book of Leviticus comprising Chapters 16:1 – 20:27. Chronologically, it returns to Parshat Shemini, the deaths of Aharon’s eldest sons, Nadav & Avihu, after the subsequent digression to the laws of kosher animals, Tazria & Metsorah.

Aharei Mot begins with a warning to Aharon about the danger of randomly entering the Holy of Holies. Instead it details the elaborate Yom Kippur ritual service, with incense offering and scapegoat, to be performed in the Mishkan by Aharon the High Priest. The parasha includes further laws prohibiting animal offerings outside the Mishkan as well as commandments not to consume their blood. It ends with a series of laws on illicit sexual relationships.

Kedoshim contains the command to emulate G-d and become a holy nation. It includes variations of the 10 Commandments plus laws on social justice such as leaving over grain for the less privileged during the harvest, or not showing judicial favour to the rich over the poor. It also has many laws that appear to lack rationality such as Kilayim, not cross-breeding species nor wearing garments made from a mixture of wool and linen.

Included in Parshat Kedoshim are laws regarding waiting until the 5th year’s harvest to consume the fruit of new trees, maintaining an honest set of weights & measures, not giving over one’s children to the pagan infanticide practise of Molekh, and not committing incest.

Kedoshim concludes with the general prohibition against following the perverse ways of other nations who preceded Bnei Yisrael in Cana’an, the land they were to inherit. It emphasizes the need to separate from that which would lead to impurity; instead to live a sanctified life in G-d’s presence.

Please look here for an Aliyah-by-Aliyah summary.

COMMENT: The overarching theme of Aharei Mot & Kedoshim is about achieving Kedusha – a level of holiness associated with being in G-d’s presence.

Though the juxtaposition of Aharei Mot (about the death of Aharon’s sons and the annual Yom Kippur service) to Tazria-Metsorah (which concerned those who contracted spiritual impurity from their Tsara’at or bodily discharges) seems inexplicable, one possible link is the connection between Kedusha & spiritual purity.

When the Mishkan (or the 1st Temple) was in existence, our sages say that Bnei Yisrael could sense the Divine Presence in their midst. Whether it was through overt miracles – like the Clouds of Glory, or through a heightened sensitivity to their environment, they presumably felt an elevated spirituality and temperament.

We sometimes experience that today in rare gifted moments, when overwhelmed by the enormity of the natural world or after considerable selfless effort toward a noble cause. That feeling of Awe, that everything is far greater than our selves but that we are also an unending part of it, may be a glimpse of what Kedusha is about.

Tazria-Metsorah explained processes that bring us in contact with our mortality; birth and post-partum, ejaculation and menstruation. Because of taboos in most societies, they’re not often spoken about. Yet they touch the core of our physicality and are the basis for far more decisions than we’re willing to admit.

Through sexuality, humans attempt to overcome death – by creating a new generation to follow on. When conducted with a sacred intention, we’re brought closer to the Divine than through any other act. Misused, we are drawn farther away.

Tahara (spiritual purity) in the Book of Leviticus is a status one must doggedly pursue to enable proximity to the Almighty. Those who are Ta’mei (spiritually impure) find their path to the Divine obstructed.

Aharei Mot & Kedoshim teach us the ways to unblock and remove those obstructions. Uniquely, not aestheticism, prayer and fasting but through controlling our normal behaviour and through the performance of mitsvot, do we meet G-d.

No coincidence that much of these two parashot were chosen to be read on Yom Kippur – the holiest day of the year. Not just because they effect atonement but because they teach the necessary behaviour – Kedusha – enabling us to draw closer to G-d.

Thoughts for the Week 4 May

Concerns are growing that a war could break out between North Korea and its neighbours, prompted by pressures from the US military who oppose North Korea’s nuclear testing.

While it may seem the distance between Asia and England is far enough to discount any impact here in London, and that perhaps we should be more concerned about next month’s elections in France and the UK, one can’t help but feel anxious watching the growing antagonism in a country ruled by a ruthless and unpredictable dictator. All the more reason to recite a few Psalms in search of spiritual redemption.

RECITING PSALMS Introduction: This brief comment is in memory of my late mother (Brainah Leah bat Moshe Aharon) and for all those who read Tehillim for the sake of others. [Note: Quoted verses are taken from the Mechon Mamre website.]

Chapter 40: Psalm 40 is attributed to King David. Divided into 2 sections, the first 11 verses follow the pattern of Personal Thanksgiving while the last 7 verses appeal to G-d’s Mercy & Forgiveness.

Incongruity between the first and second part of Psalm 40 has given non-Jewish Biblical scholars reason to suspect this may once have been 2 separate Psalms.

Jewish scholars instead see this Psalm referring to earlier periods in Jewish history; the Exodus & Splitting of the Reed Sea. I.e. the new song in verse 4 could refer to Az Yashir, the Song of the Sea; and the declaration of faithfulness in verse 11 might refer to Bnei Yisrael accepting the 10 Commandments at Sinai.

וַיַּעֲלֵנִי, מִבּוֹר שָׁאוֹן– מִטִּיט הַיָּוֵן: וַיָּקֶם עַל-סֶלַע רַגְלַי; כּוֹנֵן אֲשֻׁרָי. [G-d] brought me up out of the tumultuous pit, out of the miry clay; setting my feet upon a rock, establishing my goings. (Psalms 40:3)

וַיִּתֵּן בְּפִי, שִׁיר חָדָשׁ– תְּהִלָּה לֵא-לֹהֵינוּ: יִרְאוּ רַבִּים וְיִירָאוּ; וְיִבְטְחוּ, בַּ-ה. And [G-d] put a new song in my mouth, praise unto our God; many will see and fear, and will trust in the LORD. (Psalms 40:4)

Though the Torah lists at length the sacrificial offerings brought in the Mishkan, David suggests the value of these is found not in G-d’s need for burnt meat but in Bnei Yisrael fulfilling the Divine Will.

רַבּוֹת עָשִׂיתָ, אַתָּה ה אֱ-לֹהַי–נִפְלְאֹתֶיךָ וּמַחְשְׁבֹתֶיךָ, אֵלֵינוּ: אֵין, עֲרֹךְ אֵלֶיךָ–אַגִּידָה וַאֲדַבֵּרָה; עָצְמוּ, מִסַּפֵּר. Many things have You done, O LORD my God; Your wonderful works and thoughts toward us; there’s none to compare to You! Should I declare and speak, they’re more than can be told. (Psalms 40:6)

לַעֲשׂוֹת-רְצוֹנְךָ אֱ-לֹהַי חָפָצְתִּי; וְתוֹרָתְךָ, בְּתוֹךְ מֵעָי. I delight to do Your will, my God; Your law is in my innermost parts. (Psalms 40:9)

Few of us live with a view of the devastation caused by sin. The righteous recognise a need for G-d’s support in refraining from transgression. Verse 12 appears in the weekday supplicatory prayers known as Tahanun and in the zemirot section of Shaharit.

אַתָּה ה– לֹא-תִכְלָא רַחֲמֶיךָ מִמֶּנִּי; חַסְדְּךָ וַאֲמִתְּךָ, תָּמִיד יִצְּרוּנִי. O LORD, do not withhold Your compassion from me; let Your mercy and truth continually preserve me. (Psalms 40:12)

Doubt in G-d and mortal fear have been with mankind since the beginning of history. David insists God will help the weak and all who trust in him. He advises waiting patiently; urging us to continue to believe, hope and pray for Redemption.

יֵבֹשׁוּ וְיַחְפְּרוּ, יַחַד– מְבַקְשֵׁי נַפְשִׁי, לִסְפּוֹתָהּ: יִסֹּגוּ אָחוֹר, וְיִכָּלְמוּ– חֲפֵצֵי, רָעָתִי. Let be ashamed and abashed, together, those who seek to sweep away my soul; let be turned backward and brought to confusion those who delight in my harm. (Psalms 40:15)

וַאֲנִי, עָנִי וְאֶבְיוֹן– אֲ-דֹנָי יַחֲשָׁב-לִי: עֶזְרָתִי וּמְפַלְטִי אַתָּה; אֱ-לֹהַי, אַל-תְּאַחַר. For me, poor and needy, the Lord will take an account; my help and deliverer; O God, do not delay. (Psalms 40:18)

In Psalm 40, David expresses eternal gratitude to G-d for the wondrous salvations he received. He affirms an allegiance to G-d’s Torah and proclaims G-d’s wonders to the world. Yet it isn’t enough to fulfil the Torah; one must – like Abraham – express publicly the goodness we receive from the Almighty, spreading an awareness of G-d in the world.

Psalm 40 was popularised by the music group U2 in 1983 in their album War. Click here to see them perform in concert.

Parshat Tazria-Metsorah

Summary: Parashot Tazria-Metsorah are the 4th & 5th in the Book of Leviticus comprising Chapters 12:1 – 15:33. Having previously delineated laws to the Kohanim against drinking wine while serving in the Mishkan, and to the general population laws of eating only kosher animals and the spiritual impurity from contact with that which is not kosher, these two parashot continue to describe a state of personal purity or impurity.

The main themes of Tazria-Metsorah are child birth, Tsara’at (inflammations appearing on skin, hair, clothing or buildings), and unusual genital discharges as well as menstruation.

Tazria declares in great specificity the spiritual status resulting directly from these events, or even indirectly should another person come in contact (through touch, sitting or spittle) with those who were adversely affected.

Metsorah describes various purification ceremonies for those who experienced Tumah (spiritual impurity), including the double-bird ceremony where one was offered and the second was set free. It also includes laws for Tsara’at found in a home, before concluding with laws related to impurity caused by sexual discharges.

Please look here for an Aliyah-by-Aliyah summary.

Comment: The ceremony to cleanse a Metsorah which required taking 2 live birds, offering one as a sacrifice, then dipping the other along with a piece of cedar wood, hyssop branch and crimson thread in the blood of the slaughtered bird appears only one other place in the Torah. A separate reference to using the cedar wood, hyssop and crimson thread combination is related to the Red Heifer whose ashes were used to purify those who had contracted the highest degree of spiritual impurity through contact with the dead.

Several commentators explain that Tsara’at resulted from petty theft, jealousy and/or improperly treating information about others – spreading slander or gossip. They suggest that being forced into isolation outside the encampment was ‘just punishment’ which fitted the crime.

The ritual itself seems distressing. To take a live bird and dip it in the blood of one of its own kind before releasing it into the wild, today would be considered inhumane. But we might suggest the intended impact was to demonstrate to the offender, the seriousness of their crime – they were quite literally standing on the threshold, the dividing line between life and death.

Their actions – intended to harm or destroy the sanctity of national life, verbally harming, shaming or maligning others – caused them to be cast out from the privilege of communal security and safety. For whom among us can survive entirely without reliance on fellow human beings?

Additionally, from the penultimate verse in Parshat Metsorah it explains ‘these laws were intended so the Children of Israel wouldn’t die in their impurity, by making impure My dwelling in their midst.’ Just as the 2 sons of Aharon from Parshat Shemini were struck down in service of the Almighty for their inappropriate behaviour, so too were the general population proscribed to a correct path for their own well-being.

Though today we lack a Temple that houses the Divine presence, it still is in our benefit to take heed to these ritualistic laws, for in so doing we enable our clothing, our homes, ourselves and our most intimate family members to become attuned to and experience G-d’s spiritual presence.

LEVITICUS OVERVIEW: The Book of Leviticus spans the 4-6 weeks in which Bnei Yisrael were encamped at the base of Mt Sinai learning from Moshe that which G-d commanded him atop the mountain. It was a time for inaugurating the Mishkan and inducting the Kohanim before the nation began its journey toward Canaan.

The third of the 5 Books of Moses, Leviticus, is also known as Torat Kohanim (Law of the Priests) because it contains a detailed explanation of the daily, weekly and annual Mishkan ritual cycle. It also contains well-known codes for Jewish behaviour still relevant today – Kashrut, Family Relationships, Shabbat and Festivals. Many of these commandments enabled Bnei Yisrael to remain in a state of ritual purity and become a Sanctified Nation. Ultimately, beyond the laws governing interaction with the Divine, there were social justice laws intended for interacting with a wider world.

Thoughts for the Week 27 April

Many congratulations to Borehamwood & Elstree residents, Damien Schogger (3’17”) and Paul Deacon (4′ 40′) for finishing last Sunday’s London Marathon.

In advance of the race, of great interest was the conversation about mental health that helped launch a new charity initiative, Heads Together, whose patrons are members of the Royal Family. Click here for a very open discussion about bereavement, addiction and loss between the Duke & Duchess of Cambridge and Prince Harry.

We’re now in the period of Sefirat HaOmer, counting the 50 days from Passover until Shavuoth. For a reminder of Laws & Customs related to the Omer, please click here.

Thursday 27 April is the 16th day of the Omer or 2 weeks and 2 days.

RECITING PSALMS Introduction: This brief comment is in memory of my late mother (Brainah Leah bat Moshe Aharon) and for all those who read Tehillim for the sake of others. [Note: Quoted verses are taken from the Mechon Mamre website.]

Chapter 39: Psalm 39 is attributed to King David. It’s a reflection on the frailty of the human condition. There are 4 points raised in this Psalm; the struggle to keep control over one’s thoughts, words and actions; the all-too short-lived and unpredictable nature of life; a request by David for deliverance from sin; and a petition for spiritual protection until his demise.

The Psalm opens with a dedication to the leader, Yidutun, either a reference to one of the sons of Merari (a descendant of Levi) or a kind of instrument – for in the days of the Temple many of the Psalms were sung by the Levites with choral accompaniment.

אָמַרְתִּי– אֶשְׁמְרָה דְרָכַי, מֵחֲטוֹא בִלְשׁוֹנִי: אֶשְׁמְרָה לְפִי מַחְסוֹם– בְּעֹד רָשָׁע לְנֶגְדִּי. I said: ‘I’ll take heed to my ways that I sin not with my tongue; I’ll keep a curb upon my mouth, while the wicked are before me.’ (Psalms 39:2)

If suffering is sent to chastise and afflictions meant to stir-up prayer and awaken the soul, David urges the penitent to refrain from protest. For the value of silence is often greater than the imaginary relief coming from complaint.

הוֹדִיעֵנִי ה, קִצִּי–וּמִדַּת יָמַי מַה-הִיא; אֵדְעָה, מֶה-חָדֵל אָנִי. LORD, make me to know my end, and the measure of my days what they are; let me know how short-lived I am. (Psalms 39:5)

As much as one who is suffering prays for a speedy end to their pain, similarly, is it wise to contemplate the vanity of one’s labours and the transience of human life.

אַךְ-בְּצֶלֶם, יִתְהַלֶּךְ-אִישׁ– אַךְ-הֶבֶל יֶהֱמָיוּן; יִצְבֹּר, וְלֹא-יֵדַע מִי-אֹסְפָם. Surely man walks as a mere semblance; for vanity they are in turmoil; he heaps up riches, and knows not who shall gather them. (Psalms 39:7)

David emphasises that, like those who came before us, we are mortal and thus strangers and sojourners in a drama that began before we were born and which will continue long after we are gone. Living as a ‘temporary-resident’ enables us to concentrate our attention on that which is spiritually relevant, transcendent and eternal.

שִׁמְעָה תְפִלָּתִי ה, וְשַׁוְעָתִי הַאֲזִינָה–אֶל-דִּמְעָתִי, אַל-תֶּחֱרַשׁ: כִּי גֵר אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ; תּוֹשָׁב, כְּכָל-אֲבוֹתָי. Hear my prayer, O LORD, and give ear unto my cry; keep not silence at my tears; for I am a stranger, a sojourner, as all my fathers were. (Psalms 39:13)

Only in the fleeting moments that comprise one’s life can we accomplish that which will define our existence. David’s final words in this Psalm are a plea to the Almighty to stop his suffering, enabling him to yet recover his strength before death descends.

Parshat Shemini

Summary: Parshat Shemini is the 3rd in the Book of Leviticus spanning Chapters 9:1-11:47. It describes the ritual sacrifices brought by Aharon to consecrate the Mishkan on the final day of its inauguration. The ceremony climaxed with the appearance before all the people of the Glory of the Lord and with a Heavenly fire that consumed the offerings.

In their over-enthusiastic zeal, tragically, Nadav & Avihu, the older sons of Aharon, took upon themselves to bring an unscheduled incense offering and they too were consumed by the Lord’s fire. Cousins had to remove their burned bodies from the Sanctuary.

The same day a series of commands were issued warning the priests not to serve while intoxicated and their remaining brothers, Elazar and Itamar, were commanded to fall into place to complete the day’s sacrificial service. When Moses learned one of the sin offerings hadn’t been eaten but was burnt-up instead, he chastised Aharon’s sons. Quietly, Aharon came to their defense.

The parasha continues with the laws of kosher animals, fish, birds and insects and concludes with commands listing categories of day-long ritual impurity resulting from prohibited animals coming in contact with vessels, food or humans; either through a liquid intermediary, through touch or ingestion.

Please look here for an Aliyah-by-Aliyah summary.

Comment: This week’s parasha offers profound insight into coping with loss and bereavement. On a day which should have been the most joyous in his career as High Priest, Aharon instead suffered the tragic death of his two eldest sons.

Much has been written on Moshe’s initial words of consolation reminding Aharon that G-d said ‘through those who are dear I will be sanctified and in front of the nation I will be honoured’ (Lev 10:3) and on the two enigmatic words VaYidom Aharon (Aharon was silent) describing Aharon’s emotional response.

Those of us who‘ve lost loved ones will upon reflection reach such a point – where there are no longer any words to express our grief. The emotional cycle is triggered by a fond memory, leading to a sense of deep sadness. That’s often followed by the desire to express and share our overwhelming feelings in writing, verbally, or through photographs. What then frequently sets-in is a feeling of helplessness and abandon – knowing that nothing can bring back those we loved. The cycle is completed when we realise the need to again find the fortitude to go forward.

This is also reflected in the peculiar aftermath story in Parshat Shemini where Moshe chastised the remaining sons of Aharon for not having eaten one of the sin offerings. A sin offering was to be partially consumed by the Kohanim in order to restore to its donor the lost sense of spiritual balance caused by the sin. As G-d’s representative to the people, Kohanim consuming the offering were part of the ritual process to bring about atonement.

It seems insensitive for Moshe to have confronted and criticised Elazar and Itamar for not having fulfilled their role. Yet Aharon’s intervention on behalf of his living sons met with Moshe’s approval.

Paradoxically, Aharon as High Priest should have ensured his sons compliance with sacrificial law. But the loss he’d experienced as a father supersede their need for eating the Sin offering. And curiously, this was acceptable in Moshe’s eyes.

What can be gleaned from this obscure Biblical narrative and advances in the field of bereavement counselling is that we all experience loss in different ways. Yet when challenged to perform publicly even while feeling bereaved, an expedient approach is to seek outside help along with internal silence. In that tenuous mental space, we can hopefully realise that our loss is also felt by the Divine and that we aren’t entirely abandoned or alone in our grief.

Thoughts for the Week 20 April

We trust you had an enjoyable Pesah holiday and have returned to normative work and school routines. We are now in the period of Sefirat HaOmer, counting the 50 days from Passover until Shavuoth. For a reminder of Customs & Laws related to the Omer, please click here. Today is the 9th day of the Omer which is 1 week and 2 days.

Also, please note that our annual Lag LaOmer BBQ will be on Sunday 14 May 2017, and that Rambam Sephardi is once again participating in the Maccabi GB Community Fun Run. To sign up to run with us, please click here.

ELECTIONS PAST/ ELECTIONS FUTURE
The past week has seen several noteworthy decisions and announcements in the world of politics. The referendum victory in Turkey of President Recep Tayyip Erdogan and the announcement in the UK of a snap election for 8 June have captured headlines.

This coming Sunday’s run-off elections in France are also being watched carefully. So it felt a bit like the well-known Dickensian story – with ghosts of elections past and elections future haunting our imaginations.

The power grab by Turkey’s leader – which passed by a thin margin – seems largely unwelcome by Turkish citizens in the country’s major capitals as well as by Western leaders. While historically in the UK snap elections have more often than not dealt a different result than expected.

At the same time the power showdown between North Korea and the USA added a disconcerting degree of tension to the Passover/ Easter weekend. Recognising the potential cataclysm of nuclear holocaust, one can only pray for the fulfilment of G-d’s redemptive promise to our ancestors.

We beseech the Almighty to ensure humanity will refrain from destroying itself. Our constant hope is to see Isaiah’s prophesy realised (11:6-9, from Passover’s last Haftarah) – that there will come a time when all will learn to live together in harmony.

RECITING PSALMS Introduction: This brief comment is in memory of my late mother (Brainah Leah bat Moshe Aharon) and for all those who read Tehillim for the sake of others. [Note: Quoted verses are taken from the Mechon Mamre website.]

Chapter 38: Psalm 38 is attributed to King David; it is considered a penitential prayer, filled with grief and remorse. Divisible into 5 themes, it begins with G-d’s abhorrence of sin and the resulting pain and self-revulsion David felt about his behaviour. It includes the unkindness and abandonment he experienced from relatives and friends, his enemy’s evil intentions during this period of vulnerability, and his own plea to G-d for repentance and salvation.

ה–אַל-בְּקֶצְפְּךָ תוֹכִיחֵנִי; וּבַחֲמָתְךָ תְיַסְּרֵנִי. O LORD, rebuke me not in Your anger; nor chasten me in Your wrath. (Psalms 38:2)

נַעֲוֵיתִי שַׁחֹתִי עַד-מְאֹד; כָּל-הַיּוֹם, קֹדֵר הִלָּכְתִּי. I am bent and bowed down greatly; I go mourning all the day. (Psalms 38:7)

The Rabbis of the Talmud (TB Berakhot) advised that when one is afflicted with suffering it is a sign to be introspective in identifying possible misdeeds and mending one’s ways. Such self-reflection and isolation can help one restore a sense of focus and centeredness.

But over time we’ve learned never to under-estimate the role of family and friends in helping mitigate the suffering of others. Sadly, many of us only offer help when times are easy and good, but we become scarce when difficulties arise.

אֹהֲבַי, וְרֵעַי–מִנֶּגֶד נִגְעִי יַעֲמֹדוּ;    וּקְרוֹבַי, מֵרָחֹק עָמָדוּ. Friends and companions stand aloof from my plague; and kinsmen stand afar off. (Psalms 38:12)

If one’s punishment is due to sinful behaviour, an antidote may be turning to G-d to repent misdeeds. Through Teshuvah (returning) one gains confidence to endure the discomfort of our affliction, knowing the torments will pass, and that we will again be restored into the Lord’s presence.

כִּי-לְךָ ה הוֹחָלְתִּי; אַתָּה תַעֲנֶה, אֲ-דֹנָי אֱ-לֹהָי. For in You, O LORD, do I hope; You will answer, O Lord my God. (Psalms 38:16)

אַל-תַּעַזְבֵנִי ה: אֱ-לֹהַי, אַל-תִּרְחַק מִמֶּנִּי. Forsake me not, O LORD; O my God, be not far from me. (Psalms 38:22)

Having just completed the Passover festival and re-experiencing the birth of our national freedom as well as reimagining that demoralizing sense of Egyptian enslavement, some may feel disheartened by the current state of our unredeemed world.

Psalm 38 addresses the issue of a seemingly endless Exile through the lens of David’s troubles, while offering solace as well as encouragement. This Psalm can also be recited by those who suffer personal tragedy and misfortune.

Parshat Tsav – Shabbat HaGadol

Summary: The Book of Leviticus spans the 4-6 weeks in which Bnei Yisrael were encamped at the base of Mt Sinai learning from Moshe that which G-d commanded him atop the mountain. It was a time for inaugurating the Mishkan and inducting the Kohanim before the nation began its journey toward Canaan.

The third of the 5 Books of Moses, Leviticus, is also known as Torat Kohanim (Law of the Priests) because it contains a detailed explanation of the daily, weekly and annual Mishkan ritual cycle. It also contains well-known codes for Jewish behaviour still relevant today – Kashrut, Family Relationships, Shabbat and Festivals. Many of these commandments enabled Bnei Yisrael to remain in a state of ritual purity and become a Sanctified Nation. Ultimately, beyond the laws governing interaction with the Divine, there were social justice laws intended for interacting with a wider world..

Parshat Tsav is the 2nd in the Book of Leviticus comprising Chapters 6:1-8:36. It describes how the Kohanim were to perform the sacrifices; the Olah, Minha, Hatat, and Shelamim. Tsav ends with a lengthy description of the elaborate induction ceremony which, significantly, required sacrificial blood to be placed on the right earlobe, thumb and toe of the Kohanim.

Please look here for an Aliyah-by-Aliyah summary.

Comment: This week is also known as Shabbat HaGadol, occurring always the week before Pesah. It recalls the command by G-d to the Jewish people to take their paschal lambs, keep them for several days, then in unison as a people, slaughter and use the blood to paint their lentils and doorposts. The Torah explains this was done so the Angel of Death would pass over the Jewish homes while smiting the first-born Egyptians in what was the 10th and final plague.

Each paschal lamb was eaten by the family that brought it, and where the numbers weren’t large enough, designated neighbours were invited to join in. Inviting guests to one’s Seder today echoes a tradition dating back to the original Seder night in Egypt.

While parts of the Haggadah are taken directly from the Torah, much of the tradition became formalised by the rabbis of the Talmudic period. (Attached is a diagram showing how the Haggadah was enlarged and expanded over the centuries.)TAL – Panoramic History of Haggadah (6 Mar 17)

The Seder itself is a precious opportunity to explore and re-experience our 3,300-year-old birth as a nation. Done well, children will remember this evening well into their adulthood. And, so it is worthwhile thinking ahead and planning ways to make the evening engaging (a quick Google search will yield many ideas).

As adults we see things with a far more critical eye, yet it is equally good to bring our own questions to this unusual festive meal. An example: The basic mitzvah of Pesah night is to recount the Exodus from Egypt, to drink 4 cups of wine or grape juice and to eat, at the very least, some matzah and maror – to show gratitude to the Almighty for freeing our ancestors from slavery and oppression.

But was it not the Lord who initially told Abraham his descendants would be enslaved for 400 years? Like much of the darker side of Jewish history, how can we be asked to thank G-d for afflicting us first and then redeeming us? For that matter, even today there are many who still suffer from slavery and oppression.

Rather than offer a solution, we’ll leave you, the reader, in preparing for Monday night, to search, enquire and try to find a meaning that resonates with truth.